How to manage daily life and interests across fashion, home decor and food
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The truth is, most of us simply don’t know what our real loves are. This is when a more specific approach to finding happiness might be necessary. According to Psychology Today, there are some very simple steps that any individual or couple can take to find happiness. Some people think that they just have a natural talent for something (like singing) others believe that true happiness comes from doing different things. For instance, when I was a young kid, I watched my parents cook. It was a very enjoyable activity. My mom would put on my favorite show with no set up required just because she loved it, not because she planned to cook or anything like that. While these types of tasks are fun, there is a level of pressure placed upon them. People get frustrated and overwhelmed before even attempting a task that seems so easy.
As time went on and I got older, I realized that cooking wasn’t really my thing at all. When I started working to make money and build a career while attending college, I thought maybe I could find something I liked to do that is actually a “thing.” After having an extremely good experience teaching English in China, I noticed it was time to look into a job in America. There were numerous companies that offered me a position at a company. At first, this seemed like an awful idea. I thought to myself, why go to America? Why would I leave everything I knew and become someone who wasn’t qualified to live independently? But the reality was, I never wanted to find a situation where this was a possibility. Now I have a new choice and now, instead of spending hours trying to fit in somewhere or feeling alone, I’m able to be myself without much pressure. I’ve had more opportunities and opportunities to create my own unique brand of clothes and accessories rather than worrying about looking stupid when I wear them.
It has also been great for getting rid of any major negative emotions I had at times during my childhood that I had to use that negative energy towards myself. For example, I didn’t like my mother because I constantly told her to do the dishes and then told her not to, and she would throw tantrums. I would spend a huge part of my day lying down and crying because of it. As an adult, I learned I had to make decisions for myself rather than putting so much pressure onto others to help me out. Although it might not seem like it at first, it eventually became pretty normal to me. My mother has always been supportive and I can trust her more now.
I have found that through all of the positive changes I’ve made over the years, I still have moments of sadness because sometimes bad things happen. However, there are situations where I can be in a better mood by being alone and taking care of things around me. Having many friends is important, especially among those who have similar goals as us. We are able to bond more easily and connect on this level.
So rather than worry about how I’ll be able to make enough money or stay busy throughout the rest of my life, I can focus on things other than that. As I mentioned earlier, I recently started school and this is another important step for me. By going to classes, I am able to gain confidence in myself and in my abilities. That is the biggest asset I’m bringing to my family. When people look up to me, they want to follow in my footsteps. Because of that, I have created a culture that encourages self-expression and individuality. I am creating a community for people to come together and enjoy all that it brings to the table. Not only does that encourage creativity and individuality, but that also makes social and intellectual growth and friendships a lot easier. It allows me to give back to the community and have a greater sense of belonging in it, too. I’m a strong believer in giving back to the community to build connections.
I believe that the reason I’m creating a community around helping people through their everyday challenges is mainly to contribute to my ability to create and share content each day. Even though I feel lonely sometimes, I am using this time to try to learn more about the world around me and see what it takes to be successful and happy. I can’t wait to continue growing this community and making it the place I need it to be to have the same joys and purpose that it did for me.
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